So yeah, I had 6 plants and I think maybe 2 might recover, the rest are fried. Oh well, guess it just isn't a good tomato year :)
One cool thing was that when I was spraying my plants I found two more big caterpillars because when you spray them with water they wiggle like crazy. So if you think you have caterpillars spray your plants with some water.
My mom was really sad when she heard about my tomato plants. So the moral of the story is DON'T USE SOAP ON YOUR PLANTS! She said it works with just a little bit of soap, I guess I used too much.